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So, i asked a few users for friendship, and help, and they literally told me "you need a mic, or voice chat, or i will not help you"

 

Not everyone is comfortable using a mic, or going into a voice chat session. I don't understand why, whenever i try to ask for help, people ignore, threaten, and tell me i don't matter as a human.

Is there anyone i can talk to, Support or Game wise that can help me filter through these toxic individuals.

 

You gotta understand, i asked for help, or even Divisions, or people to talk to, I'm not looking for money, I'm not looking for any donations or anything like that, i just want friends to play the game with.

And from what i've seen, alot of people are very upset by me asking for help from them.

 

We're all different, we all have our own struggles in life, why do you gotta be toxic, and refuse help.. everyone who is a pro, was once a noob... so i really just don't understand.

 

(and before you all tell me to go on youtube, i do watch videos and tutorials on there, I'm just looking for people to play divisions and have chats with. ) Surely that isn't too much to ask... or is it ?

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Well.... how is your clan?

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It sort of is during a match. Trying to type a convo during battle can get you sunk.

Also, you're a newer player. Many don't want to div with an "unknown quantity"

Best bet is to get involved here, and get to know people. Ask somebody here to show you the ropes, and that should get things started.

TBH though, this isn't really a "social" game, unless you're on a private Discord channel with other individuals. (I do believe there is a NA server Discord channel too.

You can try port chat too, but it can be very disjointed and confusing.

EDIT: oh yeah, you're in a clan, start there. If you accepted a random invite to get in, and nobody socialises, get out, and don't join another without talking to the recruiter about what kind of atmosphere to expect.

And if you aren't comfortable with voice, it definitely limits your options. That's why I'm in a WOLF clan, I don't always want to talk to people either lol.

 

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What help are you expecting from someone who cannot talk to you? You just want to be carried to wins or what? 

If you are looking to get better and cant/wont use voice chat, then players ways to help you are extremely limited. I'm not a huge fan of divving with someone who isn't in voice chat. Typing out sentences isn't high on my list. I prefer to use my keyboard to control my ship... If given the choice between helping someone in voice chat and helping someone who isn't in voice chat, I'll take the guy in voice chat. 

Your best option would be to send in replays for analysis to someone. 

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My clan and I would be happy to help you. No mic etc. Look us up,,add me. Look forward to hearing from you.

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I second my little Brothers post. Glad to help anyway possible. Good Luck and Good Shooting! Don't give up!:Smile-_tongue:

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42 minutes ago, Shadow2k1 said:

So, i asked a few users for friendship, and help, and they literally told me "you need a mic, or voice chat, or i will not help you"

 

Not everyone is comfortable using a mic, or going into a voice chat session. I don't understand why, whenever i try to ask for help, people ignore, threaten, and tell me i don't matter as a human.

Is there anyone i can talk to, Support or Game wise that can help me filter through these toxic individuals.

 

You gotta understand, i asked for help, or even Divisions, or people to talk to, I'm not looking for money, I'm not looking for any donations or anything like that, i just want friends to play the game with.

And from what i've seen, alot of people are very upset by me asking for help from them.

 

We're all different, we all have our own struggles in life, why do you gotta be toxic, and refuse help.. everyone who is a pro, was once a noob... so i really just don't understand.

 

(and before you all tell me to go on youtube, i do watch videos and tutorials on there, I'm just looking for people to play divisions and have chats with. ) Surely that isn't too much to ask... or is it ?

Greetings from somewhere in New Hampshire (NA server).

Welcome to the forums.

Do you have specific questions that you're still interested in asking?

 

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36 minutes ago, TheLastRollOfToiletPaper said:

What help are you expecting from someone who cannot talk to you? You just want to be carried to wins or what? 

If you are looking to get better and cant/wont use voice chat, then players ways to help you are extremely limited. I'm not a huge fan of divving with someone who isn't in voice chat. Typing out sentences isn't high on my list. I prefer to use my keyboard to control my ship... If given the choice between helping someone in voice chat and helping someone who isn't in voice chat, I'll take the guy in voice chat. 

Your best option would be to send in replays for analysis to someone. 

 

Thank you, on both points.

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1 hour ago, Shadow2k1 said:

And from what i've seen, alot of people are very upset by me asking for help from them

No one is upset with you asking for help.  The issue arises when your requests devolve into talk of self-pity and self-harm.  No one wants to see that stuff on a video game chat window.  Many people have reached out to assist you in the game but you insist they are only there to troll you.  Maybe hopping like a bunny before asking for help in chat will put you in a better mood.

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For what it’s worth;

Welcome aboard!

Nice avvy, btw. Etna rocks.

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I would invite you to join my clan's discord, but we haven't been doing too well lately.

Regardless, you may add me on Discord and chat or div with me. Many people here are happy to help you if you ask for it. In fact, I encourage you to div often, as you can learn from players more skilled than you.

Kenny#8446

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1 hour ago, Shadow2k1 said:

So, i asked a few users for friendship, and help, and they literally told me "you need a mic, or voice chat, or i will not help you"

 

Not everyone is comfortable using a mic, or going into a voice chat session. I don't understand why, whenever i try to ask for help, people ignore, threaten, and tell me i don't matter as a human.

Is there anyone i can talk to, Support or Game wise that can help me filter through these toxic individuals.

 

You gotta understand, i asked for help, or even Divisions, or people to talk to, I'm not looking for money, I'm not looking for any donations or anything like that, i just want friends to play the game with.

And from what i've seen, alot of people are very upset by me asking for help from them.

 

We're all different, we all have our own struggles in life, why do you gotta be toxic, and refuse help.. everyone who is a pro, was once a noob... so i really just don't understand.

 

(and before you all tell me to go on youtube, i do watch videos and tutorials on there, I'm just looking for people to play divisions and have chats with. ) Surely that isn't too much to ask... or is it ?

Yo Shadow, I am not a Randoms player, just becoz'. You need help, add me to a list of players that will assist. GL. HF Buddy.

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Update


I just check to make sure if this was same person.

It is.

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2 minutes ago, Gruntdog_3 said:

Tnx Lady A. You have a valid point, which is why we should help. Crucis can you assist on this one?

You better not get Crucis here, you left an 's' out of "missed" in your edit explanation lol.....

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9 minutes ago, LadyAnesjka said:Update


I just check to make sure if this was same person.

It is.

What happened?

Edit: Sorry, didn't read

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I've no problem with using only chat. Post me in game if you like to Div. 

Just one thing, I'm there to play the game, not to be your confidant or share sad personal stories. 

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1 minute ago, Skpstr said:

You better not get Crucis here, you left an 's' out of "missed" in your edit explanation lol.....

Yup, and DANG!!! Will make amends for lack of 's' when Crucis bounces me! lol. Tnx.

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Most tire of typing and waiting for responses. Especially in game. Feel free to ask questions here. Everyone is an expert.

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Really, Shadow2k1 is in a clan and has no one to speak/talk with...hmmmm.  That may be an indication of something smelly. 

 

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2 hours ago, Shadow2k1 said:

So, i asked a few users for friendship, and help, and they literally told me "you need a mic, or voice chat, or i will not help you"

 

Not everyone is comfortable using a mic, or going into a voice chat session. I don't understand why, whenever i try to ask for help, people ignore, threaten, and tell me i don't matter as a human.

Is there anyone i can talk to, Support or Game wise that can help me filter through these toxic individuals.

 

You gotta understand, i asked for help, or even Divisions, or people to talk to, I'm not looking for money, I'm not looking for any donations or anything like that, i just want friends to play the game with.

And from what i've seen, alot of people are very upset by me asking for help from them.

 

We're all different, we all have our own struggles in life, why do you gotta be toxic, and refuse help.. everyone who is a pro, was once a noob... so i really just don't understand.

 

(and before you all tell me to go on youtube, i do watch videos and tutorials on there, I'm just looking for people to play divisions and have chats with. ) Surely that isn't too much to ask... or is it ?

I will help you because I feel your pain.

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Aloha,

Folks, may I remind you that every single post and reply must follow forum guidelines.

In the context of this post there have been some good replies.

Out of context, if you have a bad experience with someone, or they talk incorrectly or out of place there are systems to take care of that. You should be blocking those people, reporting them and submitting a ticket with either replays or screenshots.

If you are unsure you can send them to me first.

Someone that is asking for someone to division up with, etc on these forums is just that. @Shadow2k1 if you want to division up sometime feel free to ping me. If you're looking for advice on how to play feel free to ask in our forums as well.

-Hapa

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2 hours ago, LadyAnesjka said:

Update


I just check to make sure if this was same person.

It is.

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I feel there's a story here.

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23 minutes ago, Shoggoth_pinup said:

I feel there's a story here.

  • He make post like this in past
  • I reach out try give tip and play with
  • I log off , cannot remember why
  • I come back little later and go play match and when in match he spam message
  • Seem very manipulate type message try make me feel bad.
  • I did not respond, he get angry
  • I put on black list.


I will take forum ban if it mean save a young person from a dangerous person.

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