T5-T6 ones are bad. End of the story.
Jervis has some respectable firepower and OK torpedoes --- at T7. When up tiered things get more difficult, but the ship is still good imo.
Lightning is broken in the right hands. You play like an IJN DD with better guns or Akizuki with better concealment. Unlimited smoke and great agility to get you out of anything short of constant radar. Defensive hydro is very useful for screening as well. Imo she uptiers pretty well due to her concealment too.
Daring is played very differently to the Lightning. Your obscene amount of damage is locked behind floatiest shells and low penetration. The bad concealment is troublesome. The torpedoes are very useful, just far less so than the guns. I haven't figured out the art of Daring yet, as the impunity given by Lightning's concealment is not available. Have to say though, if you can find the enemy DD isolated, he is going to die.