OP you make my brain hurt. What you want is already in game, it's called going "quiet on the guns", a.k.a. STOP SHOOTING.
Try spending more time in a mid to high cruiser that isn't Cleveland, and count the number of "oh [censored], a battlewagon, I'm way too [censored] close" moments you have as a stealth spec BB pops up under 13km and opens fire (at your exposed broadside because you had no idea he was there and you were making sure you didn't give the guy you saw any good shots at you) as you were happily blazing away at his buds 15+ km away. After you do that get back with us as to whether or not you wish to amend your statement here.